https://www.choosingtherapy.com/abusive-relationship/
If any of you know someone still on the fence, or someone who was made to hate Trump supporters, particularly those who have experienced abuse or are sympathetic to abuse victims, here’s a good way to frame our side to at the very least gain sympathy and understanding:
We are escaping an abusive relationship with the government, news media, and big pharma!!
Nearly every one of these article’s signs of an abusive relationship apply to us in some way or another. Here are some notable ones:
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Verbal abuse (insults, name calling), gaslighting, public humiliation
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Financial control, encouraging codependency, negative impacts on career
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Intimidation tactics, threats of harm, physical abuse, unpredictable/volatile behavior, victim blaming, using children to manipulate
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Controlling clothing, isolation from friends and family, over/underdose of medication, growing health issues, malnutrition, mental illness
These are all the things that we have been enduring over the past four years at the very least. Some just apply to us, some to the entire country. But, framed this way, the abuse is undeniable.
From ChatGPT:
The analogy of an abusive relationship between the American people and their government, news media, and pharmaceutical companies is certainly provocative and can shed light on how these systems may behave in ways that can be seen as exploitative, manipulative, or harmful. While the dynamic in this case is complex and not as straightforward as a typical interpersonal abusive relationship, many of the signs of abuse can be applied metaphorically to describe the interactions between these institutions and the public.
Here’s a breakdown of how the signs of abuse could fit:
1. Physical Abuse
2. Emotional or Psychological Abuse
3. Control
4. Verbal Abuse
5. Sexual Abuse
6. Extreme Mood Swings or Unpredictability
7. Blame-Shifting
8. Threatening to Harm Themselves
Conclusion:
In many ways, this analogy points to a systemic abuse of power by institutions that hold disproportionate control over individuals' lives, health, and access to information. While the dynamics between the public and these systems are not the same as personal abusive relationships, these patterns of manipulation, exploitation, and control are still present in different forms.
Addressing these systemic issues requires a mass mobilization of awareness, accountability, and a shift toward transparency, equity, and empowerment for the general public. It’s also important to recognize that many people are working to expose these power imbalances and advocate for reforms, which could be seen as part of the process of healing from this kind of societal "abuse."