Also keep in mind. From what I've seen, there are multiple brainwashing avenues (chemical, biological, RF/nanotech) to mess with people. If she's heavily resisting, consider she's possibly being manipulated by some forces to some extent beyond her will. I've had more luck convincing total strangers that seems to prove this happens with relatives/people I've known a long time. Check "gangstalkingmindcontrolcults.com" for more in-depth information. Hope this helps.