Actually, that just reminded me.
I was training a team. And this one teammate (it turned out t get had a genetic defect which lead to this) broke their leg.
A few if us turned around and saw the bottom of their leg (a little above the ankle down) dangling limp and facing the wrong way.
It was grotesque and off putting.
But did I stand there and point 'eww nanny nanny pooo pooo you looked off putting" ?
No, I sprinted into action to get them help.
Did I treat them with dignity and care? Yes.
Your can make an observation, have a feeling from that observation, and yet push through to be compassionate/help/love etc.
Actually, that just reminded me. I was training a team. And this one teammate (it turned out t get had a genetic defect which lead to this) broke their leg.
A few if us turned around and saw the bottom of their leg (a little above the ankle down) dangling limp and facing the wrong way.
It was grotesque and off putting. But did I stand there and point 'eww nanny nanny pooo pooo you looked off putting" ? No, I sprinted into action to get them help. Did I treat them with dignity and care? Yes.
Your can make an observation, have a feeling from that observation, and yet push through to be compassionate/help/love etc.