About 20 years ago, I worked in a corporate setting, one of my coworkers was a gay guy. He used to make "jokes" like "I love little kids, their tiny hands make you look huge". Back then, everyone thought he just had a messed up sense of humor. Now I'm disturbed to realize it likely wasn't a joke. He also said things like "I love babies... with bbq sauce". His partner was very wealthy, had many even more wealthy clients at his NYC business, and now I'm thinking that wasn't a joke either. Disturbing just to think about.
About 20 years ago, I worked in a corporate setting, one of my coworkers was a gay guy. He used to make "jokes" like "I love little kids, their tiny hands make you look huge". Back then, everyone thought he just had a messed up sense of humor. Now I'm disturbed to realize it likely wasn't a joke. He also said things like "I love babies... with bbq sauce". His partner was very wealthy, had many even more wealthy clients at his NYC business, and now I'm thinking that wasn't a joke either. Disturbing just to think about.