I am 36, I was raised by Boomers and as a kid whenever you fucked up they would tell you to be responsible
But personal responsibility is a conservative value today. They generally want to be responsible for themselves and have the government do less for them and get it of the way.
So how did we get raised by people who seemed conservative but were actually leftists in the end?
City dwellers like castle dwellers 1 skill , dependency for all else and ostracism or banishment if you don't agree with current ruler giver "orthodoxy"