Cheating, having lots of partners before marriage "Body count".. or even not getting married. "We live together, so it's LIKE we are married..." No it's not. When the going gets tough, the weak get out. Having kids without marriage. I was just telling my kids this morning that in the '70's there was a kid in my elementary school whose parents were divorced, and I remember watching him and feeling so sorry for him. It was whispered about. Now, people find out we are not only married, but married to our kids' parent, and it's like "Wow! Good for you guys!!!" Too much has been normalized.