Was invited by in laws for Christmas Eve dinner weeks in advance. They even invited my mom and grandma. They served us 3-4 day old meat from a dinner party they had days earlier. There was no new food prepared for us including even boiled vegetables being 3 days old. They are wealthy people as am I.
Are we wrong to feel disrespected by this?
My grandmother would invite us over to dinner and feed us leftovers all the time. I think it's generational... Like other people said, if they enjoyed it with you, and nobody got sick - be grateful they wanted to spend time with you - return the favor and invite them over to a good homecooked meal so they know your family eats well!