A couple of years back, I listened to Jan Halper-Hayes doing an interview with someone, I forget. She said the exact same thing. She would take a gay friend of hers with her to social get togethers (this is when she was young and single). Gay friend asked her why do you want me to go? Her reply was, how else am I going to find out if they’re secretly gay?

Also, for those of you who knew rooftop tendies, she mentioned in that same interview that when she was overseas and stuck there because of Covid, she spent a lot of time on her rooftop garden.