Well aren’t you a complete self centered “cuck” whatever that means. I am so glad my husband didn’t feel that way nor myself when we both brought children into a marriage. The love we would have lost, the strength in family that would not have been there now as they are both strong, men and our daughter a beautiful wife and mother. Boys will be awesome fathers because one man dared take on the task of a blended family. He sits beside me as I write this. God blessed us with him. This generation of no fathers in the home has greatly affected your mindset. Remember Joseph the carpenter- raised Jesus.