In order for the home to be welcoming and warm for a man, his wife has to make herself warm and welcoming.
And in order for the home to be well kept and orderly, the wife has to make herself well-kept and orderly because she IS the home.
The home is not defined by the four walls of a house but by the woman living in it and she can either be the light of that home or cast a dark shadow in it.
If the wife knows how to be a home herself, then she can turn any place she is into a home.
It doesn't matter if you're elite, rich, middle class or poor, the Woman Makes the Man physically and socially.
In Western societies the Woman chooses the man by saying yes or no.
Some old folklore goes like this: The Man has to find the right Woman who will work with him. The Woman has to find the right Man to raise.