In order for the home to be welcoming and warm for a man, his wife has to make herself warm and welcoming.
And in order for the home to be well kept and orderly, the wife has to make herself well-kept and orderly because she IS the home.
The home is not defined by the four walls of a house but by the woman living in it and she can either be the light of that home or cast a dark shadow in it.
If the wife knows how to be a home herself, then she can turn any place she is into a home.
I pray for the women who are forced to work outside the home. It breaks my heart for them. I do find it refreshing though that younger families are starting to practice traditional roles again. It's slowly returning to traditional family values. I'll keep praying.