In order for the home to be welcoming and warm for a man, his wife has to make herself warm and welcoming.

And in order for the home to be well kept and orderly, the wife has to make herself well-kept and orderly because she IS the home.

The home is not defined by the four walls of a house but by the woman living in it and she can either be the light of that home or cast a dark shadow in it.

If the wife knows how to be a home herself, then she can turn any place she is into a home.