Thank you all for the replies. After reading your post Juju7 it only further cemented my decision to not be around my brother. I'm making the 5.5 hr drive to drop off my mother ( he's driving her the rest of the way home to visit with her) and turning right around to head home. God bless you
I agree but it's difficult when you believe your family will be dead and you could have stopped it. I've accepted the fact that I will lose my brother before his time but I'm sad my kids won't have an uncle.