Hey! I am a mom of three, between the ages of 2 and 6- you got this, parenthood is awesome (and hard). As for your apartment, don’t scramble- take your time, and even if you don’t find one by the time the baby is born the first year they are just that, a baby, they don’t know and don’t care- they just want cuddles and milk. Time and emotional investment top pretty much anything else.
And if anyone tells you “yOu sHoUlDnT bE fRiEnDs wiTh yOuR KiD” bs, you shouldn’t be only their friend, be their parent first, but i absolutely have friendships with all my children already and it’s beautiful.
Hey! I am a mom of three, between the ages of 2 and 6- you got this, parenthood is awesome (and hard). As for your apartment, don’t scramble- take your time, and even if you don’t find one by the time the baby is born the first year they are just that, a baby, they don’t know and don’t care- they just want cuddles and milk. Time and emotional investment top pretty much anything else.
And if anyone tells you “yOu sHoUlDnT bE fRiEnDs wiTh yOuR KiD” bs, you shouldn’t be only their friend, be their parent first, but i absolutely have friendships with all my children already and it’s beautiful.
Thank you my friend! That's very good to hear. The housing market is really intense where I am so it's good to hear there is no rush.
You sound like you have an absolutely beautiful family, sending much love to you and yours!