This stuff is like living in the Matrix. Even if we are 100% right there is 0% chance most people are going to "get on board" with it. IMHO instead the best we can do is subtle red pills over a long period of time.
Ive tried this before with other things, doing a "big reveal" to a close friend. It never went well no matter how much evidence I showed. You simply cant dump a huge amount of research onto someone quickly and expect they are going to get on board right then and there.
my 2 cents
The future will prove the past. I just tell my friends that, if the happening happens, then I will explain everything to them after it happens. (I dont use the words "the happening"). Right now no one is willing to believe the truth, because it is way way too far beyond their reality. Once reality comes crashing down, everyone will be ready to learn the real truth. Only then.