Man, if that cabal/cannibal/pedo list (was here in one of the posts, cannot find it now, not sure even I want to atm), with all of those pop culture icons, prominent figures, proves to be true... I have some serious thinking to do, re-evaluate my movie and music collection... FFS some of those things shaped my personality growing up, the way I interact with people, some character traits that I am pretty proud of... Seriously, Tom Hanks... WTF?! And stupid fucking Friends show brought smile on my face through some pretty lost moments in my life. It's stupid, I know, but it would be completely dishonest to claim that pop culture did not affect us in significant way, at all... Something is seriously rotten in human nature.... Sorry for this rant, had to get it out...
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Jesus, some of the best things I learned in my life, where it feels like I evolved the most, were done with my wife, after we committed to the fucking thing, and decided to be stubborn to make it work. I literally did not learn anything in casual relationships, even ones where I lived with them for a period of time. Nothing aside how evil and immature people can be when they feel like they have a way out, when they do not make a choice to grow rather than to entertain themselves. And that I did not need to waste my time living with somebody to learn. That I've seen amongst friends and family, there was no wisdom there. Whole of my growing up people were giving me shit and giving good hearten advice (even my own father) that I need to have "practice" girls, before I get to real thing. Funny how almost all of them dabbled into some side activities when the things got tough during their marriage.... Not for everybody, I get that, too, but the marriage is one of the best things I ever did in my life!
Love your comment and perspective. I gotta re-evaluate my life. I’ve been on a 3 year hiatus pretty much and about to get into a relationship but hope to go into with a mindset that you have.