It's largely the parents that are the problems in all aspects today. Bad parenting sometimes allows kids to grow up to be criminals and such but also some parents try to encourage a kid to be the opposite sex rather than provide proper context to the kid. Many of the changes made with gender transition cannot be undone and the process with kids should be far more thorough than it is.

If someone wants to be the opposite sex, they can to the extent that science and technology allows currently but they will never have an accurate appearance of the opposite sex nor the bone structure also certain internal organs. Also though, society has a problem of attempting to force things on others.

It's not just gender related, it's also religion. Many do not believe in a god and do not support any kind of religion and many that are religious go crazy over that but those of us that do not believe in any of it are more often than not, far more accepting of those that do believe.