Call the school and ask why the teacher is invading your sons privacy. As far as the fam goes. Everyone in the household needs to be respected, that includes you. The teacher should never be putting a child in that position. As far as parenting. I have always taught my kids not to pursue the "so I can fit in" routine. Get them to think for themselves. Like you have done.
I would definitely be calling that teacher to chew her ass out. How dare she pressure your kids actions outside of school.
Not to teach a man how to be a father... but YOU are in charge, not your son. Him crying and feeling bad about being an outsider is a strengthening moment for him unless.. you give in and let things be.
Keep fighting and don’t give up. He’s your son, not the teachers, so don’t lose the fight over his mind.
Yeah, this story is fishy. I couldn’t imagine a teacher doing something like this and if one did, there would be a reckoning.
If it’s true then the fault lies with the dad in question. If you are not respected and the head of your household then you are not a man. This guy needs to fix himself before he could even hope to fix his family.
I could imagine this happening, but his reaction makes it seem fishy. If a teacher bullied my kid in front of the class, I would very calmly and legally make that teacher never want to do that again.
He doesn’t strike me as being assertive. And that’s the root of the problems he is talking about.
I was physically assaulted nearly daily until I turned thirteen and got heavy into the martial arts so I feel you I was also a Bible Boy. Though I never went to the teachers. Felt I had to take care of it myself.
So that’s not the situation we are discussing here. The OP is claiming a teacher basically bullied his kid in front of the class. That would not fly with me and that teacher and I would be having a recorded conversation in front of their administrator.
I just left California. A teacher can in no way belittle a child. In this case you can use that to your advantage. But it seems in this case the OP could not be bothered because, and I quote, her third grader asked her not to and she’s scared the teacher will take it out on her son.
Call the school and ask why the teacher is invading your sons privacy. As far as the fam goes. Everyone in the household needs to be respected, that includes you. The teacher should never be putting a child in that position. As far as parenting. I have always taught my kids not to pursue the "so I can fit in" routine. Get them to think for themselves. Like you have done.
I would definitely be calling that teacher to chew her ass out. How dare she pressure your kids actions outside of school.
Not to teach a man how to be a father... but YOU are in charge, not your son. Him crying and feeling bad about being an outsider is a strengthening moment for him unless.. you give in and let things be.
Keep fighting and don’t give up. He’s your son, not the teachers, so don’t lose the fight over his mind.
100% agree.
I have the address to my kids teachers homes.
I'll be knocking on their door if they even whisper any political bullshit.
Yeah, this story is fishy. I couldn’t imagine a teacher doing something like this and if one did, there would be a reckoning.
If it’s true then the fault lies with the dad in question. If you are not respected and the head of your household then you are not a man. This guy needs to fix himself before he could even hope to fix his family.
You have not been paying attention if you can't imagine this happening. There is absolutely zero fishy about this story.
Though I don't disagree with your second statement, there's got to be a middle ground.
We don't even know how to do this. The women hold all the power. "I'll divorce you and take the kids away."
I could imagine this happening, but his reaction makes it seem fishy. If a teacher bullied my kid in front of the class, I would very calmly and legally make that teacher never want to do that again.
He doesn’t strike me as being assertive. And that’s the root of the problems he is talking about.
In our state, teachers were asking kids what they did over Thanksgiving, did other people come to their house, etc.
I was physically assaulted nearly daily until I turned thirteen and got heavy into the martial arts so I feel you I was also a Bible Boy. Though I never went to the teachers. Felt I had to take care of it myself.
So that’s not the situation we are discussing here. The OP is claiming a teacher basically bullied his kid in front of the class. That would not fly with me and that teacher and I would be having a recorded conversation in front of their administrator.
I just left California. A teacher can in no way belittle a child. In this case you can use that to your advantage. But it seems in this case the OP could not be bothered because, and I quote, her third grader asked her not to and she’s scared the teacher will take it out on her son.