My husband is resistant to "waking up completely." He is definitely conservative and always has been. He thinks Trump is the best president in our lifetime. He is very much a realist and knows all the crap going on, but he feels like everything happening is "too good to be true." He doesn't want to get his hopes up. I'm slowly trying to introduce things I've learned over the past few months. I'm so grateful for this community because it helps me feel like I haven't lost my mind. Be supportive of your wife's feelings and definitely pray. I will be praying for you both.