A person can shift their feelings about something seemingly overnight. It just takes the right trigger, which is rarely something somebody else tells them. What does your wife care most about? Some way leftards are ruining or threatening that, might get her attention. But not in words out of your mouth. Her guard is up, if she feels pushed. You could pray for a miracle about her, too. Miracles are real. I know this because I have experienced them. God bless you both.