You're missing the point. It's all about God! If people put God First at Everything, all this crap you say falls away. It's Not about going to church, it's about oneself that's best friends with the Lord. God's not telling you to have sex outside of marriage. He is against that. God isn't telling you to change your sex, cause God doesn't Make Mistakes. Instead of teaching people how to change themselves, we should be teaching people to, Love themselves because God loves them just the way they are.