The temptation online to unload all of one's frustrations on anyone that seems like a "worthy" target is so powerful and seemingly without consequences. I've been guilty of it at times and never felt good afterwards but what I find exhilarating is to find some common ground with an "opponent" and engage with them as potential allies. I have always been rewarded with good feelings and renewed respect for myself and others when doing this. When I see others engaging in polite debate I make a point of updooting them both or acknowledging their positive approach. This place can be a force for good or just another online hellhole, it's up to all of us.