man to man its the worst addiction out there. you wont be able to maintain a relationship until you stop, you shouldnt try, focus on yourself first. just do pushups or a jog or literally anything else when you get the urge, 1st month or 2 will be tough but it gets easier once you notice the benefits of quitting. your mind is clearer and confidence higher while shame levels are lower. good luck you can do it
Thanks Matt. I already have a blind double date setup with my best friend and his girlfriend this Saturday. Gonna see how it goes but yeah. Today is Day #1 of seriously trying to quit. I've "tried" like a few times before but never put any serious work into it. Thank you for your sympathy and advice.
Holy hell I do the same thing! I workout until failure though (can't beat your meat if your body feels like it's gonna split itself on an atomic level) and actually lost alot of weight. I often joke to my friends that I "Can't titty fuck anymore. My sugar tits are becoming muscle tits.". Got more stamina and energy.
I first watched porn around 11 years old at the start of puberty thanks to the internet. I never got morning wood during high school. I had insanely weird dreams all the time. It caused a ton of damage in my life and I just accepted the mainstream notion that it was "normal" and even "healthy". It's not.
I haven't watched anything in several years. I am over 30 now and I get morning wood that is like a diamond cutter. How do you explain that? I have energy to climb mountains and I exude positive energy. I could go on and on.
I mean. Ever since 13 ive always had that energy but it wasn't because i wasn't watching porn. It was because i started riding bike. Specifically bmx. It not only gave me a workout it also gave me a goal to work towards. Doing healthy things and actually going out there and putting in effort is what gets you far. Porn didnt do that your own inaction did that.
Porn is free because its easy to make and what you just said is true. It can be dangerous when it interferes with life. How does that happen? Well. You let it happen just like any addiction. Its a simple concept everyone here is failing to acknowledge
There are many kinds of people in the world some of them handle porn (or swinging) and relationships fine, and some do not, so don't mind some of the comments in here. Too many people try to simplify things there's nothing simple about it.
If porn doesn't cause you problems, maybe this isn't the discussion for you. You are spending a lot of time defending porn for someone who doesn't have a problem with it
Blaming things on your short comings is smooth brain. Theres many people who tried that no porn or no fap shit only to realise that success comes from the actions you make and not the things you stop doing.
man to man its the worst addiction out there. you wont be able to maintain a relationship until you stop, you shouldnt try, focus on yourself first. just do pushups or a jog or literally anything else when you get the urge, 1st month or 2 will be tough but it gets easier once you notice the benefits of quitting. your mind is clearer and confidence higher while shame levels are lower. good luck you can do it
Thanks Matt. I already have a blind double date setup with my best friend and his girlfriend this Saturday. Gonna see how it goes but yeah. Today is Day #1 of seriously trying to quit. I've "tried" like a few times before but never put any serious work into it. Thank you for your sympathy and advice.
Just imagine lazy activists writing hit pieces on you each time you get the urge.
"QANON Snakecharmer Displays Male Privilege"
Flaccid in seconds.
Lmao
This is pure genius right here
Holy hell I do the same thing! I workout until failure though (can't beat your meat if your body feels like it's gonna split itself on an atomic level) and actually lost alot of weight. I often joke to my friends that I "Can't titty fuck anymore. My sugar tits are becoming muscle tits.". Got more stamina and energy.
Remember my friends: Pump iron, not your meat.
Ive maintained many relationships while watching porn and actually left because of who the girl was most of the time.
All of this is just mind games your pushing on yourself. Porn has nothing to do with your choices in life.
I first watched porn around 11 years old at the start of puberty thanks to the internet. I never got morning wood during high school. I had insanely weird dreams all the time. It caused a ton of damage in my life and I just accepted the mainstream notion that it was "normal" and even "healthy". It's not.
I haven't watched anything in several years. I am over 30 now and I get morning wood that is like a diamond cutter. How do you explain that? I have energy to climb mountains and I exude positive energy. I could go on and on.
I mean. Ever since 13 ive always had that energy but it wasn't because i wasn't watching porn. It was because i started riding bike. Specifically bmx. It not only gave me a workout it also gave me a goal to work towards. Doing healthy things and actually going out there and putting in effort is what gets you far. Porn didnt do that your own inaction did that.
Porn is free because its easy to make and what you just said is true. It can be dangerous when it interferes with life. How does that happen? Well. You let it happen just like any addiction. Its a simple concept everyone here is failing to acknowledge
There are many kinds of people in the world some of them handle porn (or swinging) and relationships fine, and some do not, so don't mind some of the comments in here. Too many people try to simplify things there's nothing simple about it.
There we go. That makes a lot more sense. Porn bad sounds exactly like organge man bad. Its just a over simplification of a complicated matter.
Im sorry my very true experiences soil your narrative. I suggest you read my recent replies to everyone else
If porn doesn't cause you problems, maybe this isn't the discussion for you. You are spending a lot of time defending porn for someone who doesn't have a problem with it
Blaming things on your short comings is smooth brain. Theres many people who tried that no porn or no fap shit only to realise that success comes from the actions you make and not the things you stop doing.
spoken like a true porn addict. porn rewires your brain.