Been living with a full on TDS NPC White Guilt poster child (grown man) for the past year. We were pretty good friends before we moved in together at the very beginning of covid when I didn't know how big of a scam it was. We've been silently resenting each other for quite some time. I resent him for doing absolutely nothing helpful around the house, and he resents me because I don't wear a mask.
Last night, we finally got into it. He started screaming at me and calling me all sorts of things, and... It felt good? Super weird. I just looked at him and smiled as he flew his middle fingers high and repeatedly said "fuck you".
Only one month left. I'm thinking about doing nothing around the house to make a point. The trash will pile up, the dishes won't be done, the floors will be disgusting... Not sure if I want to live like a degenerate to make a point to someone who won't learn though.
Do it ! DO IT! And leave the apartment for him to clean if he wants to get his deposit back. It would be worth every penny just to make him have to do all the work. People have to learn that there are consequences to their actions. Being codependent, and continually cleaning up after a person doesn’t teach them any less than at all. Let them wallow in his own misery. It’s only one month, and you’ll be out of there. I constantly keeping everything clean around him all the time, all it does is continue the cycle. Do you him and yourself a favor, try and teach him at least one good lesson before you move out.