Been living with a full on TDS NPC White Guilt poster child (grown man) for the past year. We were pretty good friends before we moved in together at the very beginning of covid when I didn't know how big of a scam it was. We've been silently resenting each other for quite some time. I resent him for doing absolutely nothing helpful around the house, and he resents me because I don't wear a mask.
Last night, we finally got into it. He started screaming at me and calling me all sorts of things, and... It felt good? Super weird. I just looked at him and smiled as he flew his middle fingers high and repeatedly said "fuck you".
Only one month left. I'm thinking about doing nothing around the house to make a point. The trash will pile up, the dishes won't be done, the floors will be disgusting... Not sure if I want to live like a degenerate to make a point to someone who won't learn though.
don't stoop to his level. as bruce lee said "you will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. true power is sitting back and observing everything with logic. if words can control you that means everyone else can control you." yeah fuck that guy, but do the right thing.
i love this quote, thanks for pulling it.
"be water my friend" bruce lee.
By the way fuck his stupid daughter. Sorry bruce.
I love being the 45th Updooter ?
I'm a sucker for great quotes. Thanks for dropping that one!!
Just swap. Wear a mask everywhere around the house. Let him do all the housework.
I second this approach- When I speak to my TDS younger brother (who thinks I need help because I’m brainwashed by Q) I tell him I have never been happier in my entire life. While his world is crumbling around him with fake Covid- he can’t understand how I could be happy even after Trump “lost”? His basic mind feels I should be screaming at the sky like his liberal friends when crooked killery lost- he just can not comprehend.
My other favorite comeback when NPC/TDS/SJWs screech in disapproval is: “Put your mask back on” If they are screeching with a mask I say: “I’ll change your diaper later, I’m busy right now”.
Me too- after the election and more importantly after resident Bidans “inauguration” I found myself helping close friends who have been following along since day one not to give up- it had to be this way. The good news is they got over it quick and are back in the trenches with us.
That and the Fact that the Military didn't let him or Kamal Toe Touch the Wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown soldier Keeps my spirits up when I get down.
X22 listener? LOL. Absolutely right.
You should - he keeps my wife and I sane on our drive into town every day for work.
Wisdom indeed.
Get a storage unit and slowly move your stuff out, if it comes to blows he may trash the place and better it not be your items he smashes.
Oh... great advice here. I'd expect retaliation.
No, let him experience it the hard way. A gradual degeneration will make him think that you're the cause of the degeneration and not himself. But if you maintain your cleanliness and rightfulness to the very end, then as soon as he leaves and enters into a new environment, he'll feel the consequences for himself as if life had been coming at him aboard a truck.
Sadly, you won't get to witness it, but you'll know it to be the case for sure.
He will be staying in the same house. It's a shame, because the house is beautiful when taken care of. It'll have ants within a month of me moving out, no doubt. Hopefully it will make him grow, but I don't think it'll happen. He's a really smart guy, but because of that he believes himself to be to good for doing chores around the house. He's got a good heart, but he's lost and angry right now. He invested a lot of money into the business side of COVID (masks) and it's all crumbling before him. He gambled and lost, and is doubling down on delusion instead of waking up.
I see then, the situation is reversed.
In that case, may I suggest you write a letter to him? It may be a fair stretch and a risky effort, but perhaps where the highly charged, spoken word has failed, the written word (which is somewhat underrated and underused these days) may help him see a glimpse of what you see and even a way out, before it is too late and something good is made unrecoverable.
My son had the stupidity to cuss me. Just once. I Baker Acted him! Told the judge something was severely wrong with him and I felt he was a danger to me and himself. He cussed me again and said I wasn't his mother anymore. I told him I had absolutely NO DESIRE to be his mother as he was a low life scum. We didn't speak for 3 months. I held the line. He was living with his narcissist father who began scapegoating him, as I was already gone. He got kicked out regularly and slept in his car. I never offered him to come home without requirements. When he'd finally had enough, he met said requirements, turned himself around, got an education, and married his true love. None of his beautiful life would have happened without me and he damn well knows it. Men grow in hardship. Make his life hell if you want to save him!! He may not be save-able, but at least it will shorten your suffering....cold but realistic. Tough love works!! MAKE HIM GROW UP! Kick his ass out!!
Yeah, but basically the same incident. He now says he considers that the lowest point in his life and what he feels the most shame about.
Sounds like he hasn't had a real role model in his life. Show him what one looks like.
He has a girlfriend that he claims doesn't come over because she's afraid I'll give her COVID... I think it's just that she doesn't want to spend time in his messy ass room ? homeboy hasn't been laid in 2 years. He needs to get some.
I second this!!
Daddy should have spanked him more.
If you have to spank, it's not the kid that messed up.
Good luck with that.
2 for 2 and out of my hands now.
Believe it or not, I love that attitude ?
Not a universal rule but looks great on a bumper sticker
So the guy leaves dirty dishes around to grow, and collect germs, but complains about you not wearing a mask. Hypocrisy is the singular unifying dogma of the left.
Just start blasting Tom Macdonald in the place lol.
He has revealed his true self, and it's ugly. Congratulations for making that happen while you retained your poise.
Some people can get REALLY ugly when they see happy people around them.
So I am just a little concerned about your safety. Now I hope your living situation gets better.
Agree with this. I believe that these libtards try to shame and control what you as a projection of their lack of control over their own lives. I like to tell them to worry about themselves, for example the morbidly obese woman who told me to mask up a couple days back. I told her I wasn't taking health advice from someone who had no regard for their own.
Concerned about his safety? Come on
You can always do like my parents used to do to me and my brothers. Any mess we made and didn’t clean up it went right in the middle of your bed - dishes included. So if you wanted to sleep you’d at least have to move all the stuff off, his room will suffer not your house. Maybe just dump it all in a basket outside his room if you don’t wanna go in. ?
This works for kids. But this roommate, sounds unstable and who knows the potential level of wig-out
I would get out of there asap.
Allowing your place to become a shithole will not give roommate any epiphanies into scamdemics or cleanliness.
If you can, move out in secret on a day they aren’t home.
Oh yeah baby. I'd probably do that. Safest
I’ve done it. Packed up everything in advance in my bedroom. Started “cleaning” everything in the rest of the apartment and putting it in storage bins. Let them borrow some of my furniture, took their stuff off and took that too. Moved out in probably 1.5 hours when they weren’t home. Had most of the stuff and took everything even the trash can. (Don’t be a jerk to your roommate).
Good luck to OP.
I definitely did too much for them. I hope it served as a good lesson. Cutting someone else off actually got them to turn themselves around and I heard from them a few years later about it. Living with that person though changed my perspective on divorce. I never want home to be hell. If it came to the worst, I can't live like that again. I won't be unkind to myself. I don't think that will happen though. I'm stronger and more self respecting person now. I hope that for everyone—respect yourself an important amount and keep boundaries with others.
Thank you very much fren :) I know what you mean
What if you married the wrong person in a hurry?
Weak men bring hard times. There is wisdom in memes.
One day when he wants to use the facilities ..use the toilet brush on the bowl after you quietly leave his tooth brush wet from the sink on the counter. Mine put his motorcycle above all else.
I knew he would spend every waking moment on it if anything was wrong with it.. a little bit of motor oil down the engine casing to form a small pool underneath.....? kept him in the garage for weeks..just re-apply as needed ?
Cold!
You never really know someone till you live with them! Now be wise and prepare to move....singing on your way! You know know the truth and that in itself should be enough to sing about for it has set you free dear...
Blessings!
If he can pretend a mask does something, then tell him he can also pretend you’re wearing one
Just say masks are useless and just a way for the government to make it look like they are doing something.
TieDyeDan by any chance?
Roll Dukes
TieDyeD(Anon)
Why are you still living with him? Move out and say friends or move out and tell him to fuck off.
Exactly. This grown baby you live with will begin to sabotage your life RIGHT NOW. And he will justify it in his pea brain because YOU ARE ATTEMPTING TO KILL HIM DAILY BY NOT WEARING A MASK.
Let's just say in my profession I have to work with a lot of TDS incurable level people. I'd leave, but I get to red pill children all day long because of their overt derangement. And then the kids can go home and eventually red pill their family.
There's a difference between work and home. This clown is in your home. Either clean them out, or removed yourself. Find your new place now and move. The double rent for one month will be less expensive than the REAL damage this person could do. One call to an employer saying they live with you and saw you drinking or taking pills before you left for work.
Or find a based friend and couch surf in the basement. But, continue living with TDS, when not married and forced to, and no kids, you are putting yourself in danger.
Fortunately I am self employed so he cannot cancel me :) we're both entrepreneurs, and while I don't like him or respect him in covid terms, he is a very talented and smart dude. He's just lost in the sauce right now. He'll come around eventually. There is hope for him, yet.
You can fart on his pillow and give him pink eye.
That's one sloppy wet fart ....
We ALL have someone (or multiple someone's) like this in our lives. And I'm sorry but its people like this that are going to make it very hard, when shit starts to come out, to resist the urge of rubbing it in their face so hard they have to go to the hospital for a skin graft. Bless you for not throwing the toaster over the curtain while he is in the shower.
Put on a werewolf mask, go in his bedroom, and watch him sleep...
Don't dull your shine for anyone or anything.
Go, get out of there sleep in the car if have to.
Don't make a point. He's a retard. You can't change that.
Not cleaning the house will free up your time, you will get into something different, and lose your good habits that you have established.
Leaving the house a mess will also create mental clutter, something he is accustomed to, but you aren't.
I have been in man-child roommate situations. Best thing to do is to leave on the best note possible. He's a retard now, but if something changes down the road, you will be on good terms to work together.
Lol. Then you get ants and roaches.
I remember reading... I think it was Auschwitz survivor, Primo Levy. He wrote that being in the camps really cut people to their core. They showed who they really were. Some prisoners turned into saints. Others turned into monsters.
Don't fall into the Cabal game. DS intentionally aims to break up families, including new ones. Buy paper plates, plastic ware, don't make the beds. There are bigger challenges today
As they say, it all comes out in the wash. Congrats on soon being free of that unstable lunatic liberal roomie