Been living with a full on TDS NPC White Guilt poster child (grown man) for the past year. We were pretty good friends before we moved in together at the very beginning of covid when I didn't know how big of a scam it was. We've been silently resenting each other for quite some time. I resent him for doing absolutely nothing helpful around the house, and he resents me because I don't wear a mask.
Last night, we finally got into it. He started screaming at me and calling me all sorts of things, and... It felt good? Super weird. I just looked at him and smiled as he flew his middle fingers high and repeatedly said "fuck you".
Only one month left. I'm thinking about doing nothing around the house to make a point. The trash will pile up, the dishes won't be done, the floors will be disgusting... Not sure if I want to live like a degenerate to make a point to someone who won't learn though.
I definitely did too much for them. I hope it served as a good lesson. Cutting someone else off actually got them to turn themselves around and I heard from them a few years later about it. Living with that person though changed my perspective on divorce. I never want home to be hell. If it came to the worst, I can't live like that again. I won't be unkind to myself. I don't think that will happen though. I'm stronger and more self respecting person now. I hope that for everyone—respect yourself an important amount and keep boundaries with others.
Thank you very much fren :) I know what you mean
What if you married the wrong person in a hurry?