The simple, but tough answer, is she shouldnt take the job, and you should move out of state. Look for other jobs that her skills and education apply to that dont require it. Im in the same boat, as my wife works in health care management. However, she is working from home at the moment and its not required from her - yet.
You already know that deep down inside. I am just gonna say it out loud for you.
Remember, you ALWAYS have a choice. It might not be the most convenient, but you DO have a choice.
The simple, but tough answer, is she shouldnt take the job, and you should move out of state. Look for other jobs that her skills and education apply to that dont require it. Im in the same boat, as my wife works in health care management. However, she is working from home at the moment and its not required from her - yet.
You already know that deep down inside. I am just gonna say it out loud for you.
Remember, you ALWAYS have a choice. It might not be the most convenient, but you DO have a choice.