284 posted 3 years ago by propertyofUniverse 3 years ago by propertyofUniverse +285 / -1 242 comments share 242 comments share save hide report block hide replies
The lack of openness on her part would be a deal breaker if I was you. Everyone makes up their own mind about this, but doing it behind your back is akin to cheating.
I hope she gets through this safely.