They are , like Most people, prone to publicly profess the opinions of those they closely associate with even if many times secretly questioning them.... they NEED that approval and sense of belonging.. “spare the rod and spoil the child” is truth because discomfort and pain is most often the only motivation that can break that cycle.. life’s becoming uncomfortable for most and painful for many.. how do we do our part in this ? Expose the info.. pray for the transition.. and BRING ON THE PAIN !!!