No one meant to hurt me with these comments. They were trying to make me feel better. And of course, I was grateful for what I did have. I knew I was still in a pretty privileged position.
Having positive people around her means that playing her 'i'm a victim woe is me' fainting couch thing wont result to people flocking to fan her face and hold her hand and ask if there is anything they can do. No social affirmation from fake victimhood.
So the resentment at being unable to play the victim for accolades leads her to hate the positive people. Misery loves company in a nutshell.
I think the key is this part:
Having positive people around her means that playing her 'i'm a victim woe is me' fainting couch thing wont result to people flocking to fan her face and hold her hand and ask if there is anything they can do. No social affirmation from fake victimhood.
So the resentment at being unable to play the victim for accolades leads her to hate the positive people. Misery loves company in a nutshell.