It does indeed.

When they do whine about lack of respect, I simply point out that I just did show them. re- spect = to see again. It does not mean to change ones opinion or categorization based on their own statements.

If they want that change in categorization, it supposes a double standard and plying the rules of gagement to their own fit. And instead of a voluntary exchange to mutual benefit, where two minds meet, they (in)sist on a dictatorial passive-aggresive transaction, showing severe psychological trauma.

Take your meds would be what it boils down to.

"Deer in headlight" usually is a kind description.