Friends come in all variations. I hear lots of people estranging themselves from friends and family over this business - You definitely don't want to surround yourself with syncophants - you weaken your own knowledge and also lose out from the 90% good that's left in your friends. This too shall pass. Scorched Earth might sound like a strategy but it's not a particularly good one to have with your family. Let them vent then change the subject. (I plead ignorance to stop the conversation in it's tracks. It takes 2 to debate (unless Schizophrenic). Don't throw the baby (friend) out with the bathwater (screwy ideas). There was a reason you were hanging out with these people in the first place - those original reasons are still in there.
I agree that it is pretty nuanced. My point really is don’t fret over lost friendships if they were the ones to cut ties over this stuff. I’d even go so far as to say don’t even pursue friendship with those types unless they come and apologize and there is a renewed sense of respect for each others ideas. No respect, no friendship - differences are certainly fine and, in fact, expected
Friends come in all variations. I hear lots of people estranging themselves from friends and family over this business - You definitely don't want to surround yourself with syncophants - you weaken your own knowledge and also lose out from the 90% good that's left in your friends. This too shall pass. Scorched Earth might sound like a strategy but it's not a particularly good one to have with your family. Let them vent then change the subject. (I plead ignorance to stop the conversation in it's tracks. It takes 2 to debate (unless Schizophrenic). Don't throw the baby (friend) out with the bathwater (screwy ideas). There was a reason you were hanging out with these people in the first place - those original reasons are still in there.
I agree that it is pretty nuanced. My point really is don’t fret over lost friendships if they were the ones to cut ties over this stuff. I’d even go so far as to say don’t even pursue friendship with those types unless they come and apologize and there is a renewed sense of respect for each others ideas. No respect, no friendship - differences are certainly fine and, in fact, expected
Understood.