Thanks for sharing your story... it helps not feeling so lonely in something that has been traumatic. I think what you said about how the family’s behavior changed is so poignant because that is exactly what happens... maybe not in the same way but there are feelings of blame, guilt, denial, anger, hopelessness and so much more that circulate around these situations. And a lot of mourning of what could have been. I’ll be praying for you and your family; keep on being that shining light for them. You never know how much you may be blessing them by just being there. ❤️