Sorry for your loss. And sorry to hear that you live in CA.
Unfortunately, I think a lot of us can relate to the family insanity regarding the coof. We weren't allowed to visit my daughter's grandfather when he was dying last fall. The relatives in San Francisco demanded we observe the city's COVID restrictions. We had told them we'd wear masks, gloves, face shields, anything to see him (yes, it is really insane considering he was dying and under home hospice)
Sorry for your loss. And sorry to hear that you live in CA.
Unfortunately, I think a lot of us can relate to the family insanity regarding the coof. We weren't allowed to visit my daughter's grandfather when he was dying last fall. The relatives in San Francisco demanded we observe the city's COVID restrictions. We had told them we'd wear masks, gloves, face shields, anything to see him (yes, it is really insane considering he was dying and under home hospice)
Yeah, we triggered the family this summer when both of us hugged grandma in front of them. No masks and they know we're not vaxxed!