Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
I understand this problem first hand as well. Now it’s not that my wife is entirely asleep - but mostly. However when she got her second shot it was a semi-wake-up - it hit her hard and she has said repeatedly that she never would have if she knew that was going to happen. She is extremely high risk regards to anything respiratory wise have two tracheal resections (look that up if you want to see some scary stuff - make sure to include “chin stitches” in a search if you do). My advise is this... compartmentalize. Not like that isn’t in about every guys nature anyways but seriously, it’s what I had to do - so I keep my GA scrolling away from her and just don’t talk to her about much of any of it unless she asks me a question directly. Good luck