My husband was asleep since I started falling down rabbit holes in 2007. He kind of just left me to my little autistic special interests (hence my username). Geopolitical stuff has always interested me whereas he’s more into gaming. We’ve been friends for nearly 27 years and have been together for 24 and although I no doubt bored him senseless he just listened when I’d waffle on. As time has gone on he’s seen more and more stuff that I was talking about being proven right and he’s now woken up totall and is off pursuing rabbit holes of his own. I never really bombarded him with stuff, I’d just mention stuff like the odd way the media fawned over Obama, which mirrored the way the UK press treated Tony Blair in 1997 (even the same nickname - Bambi). Then when GEOTUS announced his candidacy my gut said from the minute he came down the escalator “he’s going to win it” and I discovered The Donald and he sort of absorbed a lot by osmosis. With the pandemic stuff I have known from the get go it was BS & this whole thing has red pulled him so hard cos he’s a nurse, and so are a lot of his family so it directly affects us. I I’ve always had the approach that you can lead a horse to water. I don’t like arguing with people so I prefer to drop pills by asking questions and leaving folks to work out an answer. It’s worked with him, his dad (who famously once said to me -about GEOTUS - that media wouldn’t be allowed to publish stuff if it were false) and my nephew and our kids are questioning. I’ve always said when reading any information “consider the source” and although I am aware of a lot of information from this whole thing I don’t believe a lot of it (other than God) , I watch and wait and see how things shake out. If my husband hadn’t fell into this eventually as he has I’d still love him & he me. We are best friends and that’s above everything. If your other half isn’t onboard, go gently and drop questions rather than statements and let her navigate her way through.