Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
If you think that lying to people "for their own good" is biblical then you should take a remedial English class.
Even taking into account the fact that you're wrong about the basic premise of your statement (e.g. that I think it's biblical to lie to people) it's still very ODD that you believe that a remedial English class is in order. One would think that a remedial THEOLOGY class would have been the more logical choice. Or perhaps you could have employed sarcasm and said, "You should take a remedial JERK class! Burn!"
I just can't get it out of my mind that you suggested a remedial English class. It's so very odd. But, maybe, it just so very.....you?
God.
Faith.
Marriage as ordained by God.
These things are good. They are biblical. They are not lies.
A remedial English class is best for people who spell "belief" as "belif", as you did.
Lying to your wife because of what you think she can or can't handle it is not biblical.
Telling the truth no matter how it hurts people is biblical.
You can tell the truth without sharing all the gory details.
But pretending there isn't evil so people feel better is how we got into this situation.
I had higher expectations when I chose the woman I'm spending the rest of eternity with. You're advising men to marry weak fools they don't respect. Just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's sound advice.
OH! My apologies, I thought you were a bad speller, but I see you are actually functionally illiterate. So here is YOUR remedial English class:
(1): *You said "The TRUTH will set you free. Not faith. Not a good husband. Not belif in God."
THEN, I said that truth, faith and a good marriage ARE truth. Point goes to me because I am correct.
(2) I told you: "You may need to monitor the kind of television or movies she [your wife] watches, and even restrict her SPECIFIC knowledge of world events"
THEN, you said "You can tell the truth [to your wife] without sharing all the gory details."
Which means that you just repeated what I told you and said I was wrong.
Honestly, man. READ CLOSELY. If you just want to brag that you're an enlightened new age beta with a wife who's stronger than you, just post it without misinterpreting me.
I was responding to a post about a man whose girlfriend has nightmares thinking about details of the Cabal. I agreed with him telling her the truth and then said we may have to restrict some details in order to keep them within the boundaries of what they wish to know.
You were just so excited to fight that you went out rarin' and roarin' and made a big ass of yourself and wasted part of my day having to explain to you what you read and what you wrote like you're a retard with his tongue sticking out while he tries to fingerpaint a message in his own poo.