Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
One time I gave my girlfriend a little bit of redpill about the cabal and it gave her horrifying nightmares that night. She's a very kind and compassionate soul I just don't think she's capable of emotionally handling that much information at once. She doesn't comprehend that people are capable of committing such horrors. Nowadays I don't really bother with going into too much details about stuff I know and the decisions I make, I just tell her to trust my guts and she usually just goes along with it. She's still 100% supportive of everything I do but there is just no way she is capable of dealing with knowing all the stuff I know. As men we just have to accept that during tough times we have to shoulder all the burden, even if our wives and kids don't fully understand what we're going through. Remember tough times create strong men.
And strong women...in my family I am the one that is awake and have been for MANY years, which has given our family a sense of marching to our own beat. Fortunately, my husband and married kids are very aware of things because of me but they still have to come to their own conclusion about how to think and what to do and I have to allow them that personal responsibility. I would like to say that works out 100% but it doesn't. I really don't mind being the main researcher because I would do so for myself anyway. Like you, I skip a lot of the details but try to keep everyone in the loop generally. We all have to be realistic and accepting of everyone else's difference in how they react to truth. I just do the best I can with what I've got.
Part of me wishes I was unaware that people are capable of committing heinous acts and worse so, that it is so prevalent in our society.
For many wives, it is best not to know many specifics. As another poster here has noted it can create nightmares and stress that is beyond most women's ability to handle. But it is good to at least know that these heinous acts do exist. I hope you have a godly husband who can be your protection, covering and guidance. Look to him. He will shoulder the difficult burden of knowing the depravity of humanity and will create a place of peace that will not overburden you.
That's how we got into this position.
The TRUTH will set you free.
Not faith.
Not a good husband.
Not belif in God.
The TRUTH.
If faith, God, and marriage are not TRUTH for you, there isn't any helping you. You are already lost and you understand Q only partially. This movement isn't simply some political action plan, it is a spiritual awakening.
Those things, my friend, are the real "inconvenient truth" AL Gore should have spoken about. It's shitty and zaps one's faith in humanity sometimes.
Not that all people are like that, but that people like that are pulling the strings of power and most don't even entertain the idea while children suffer around the world. And they mock us.
It's important to know, and remember. As shitty as it is.
The way I've got it figured, the cabal is captured by and serving the monsters that they sacrifice children to. It seems the monsters need to work through the natives on this world, or else things would be different. We are not alone. It's the "best kept secret" of the military. Look at all the people Kerry Cassidy has interviewed on Project Camelot. Look at Stephen Greer's Disclosure Project from 2001. It's amazing how they can keep this information buried.
It becomes impossible to unsee or unhear the atrocities.
She needs to grow up because she's leading herself down into a dystopian hellscape.
I think you highlighted a very important truth. Many kind, sensitive, decent people struggle to grasp the fact that there really are people (particularky in places of authority) who are capable of the monstous evil we are seeing unfold. Their grid of understanding can't accommodate and process the worldwide scale of evil and often they reflexively dismiss it or look for ways to reject it (preserve their grid). It's predominately a subconscious (often very emotional) defensive response that can be absent of meaningful critical thinking.
In the thread that Zuby posted a couple of weeks ago about the 20 things he had learned/confirmed during the last year, the bonus item was that 'Most people are fairly compassionate and have good intentions (this is good) As a result, most people deeply struggle to understand that some people, including our 'leaders', CAN have malicious or perverse intentions (this is bad).'
I think this particular observation is a big hurdle for a lot of people who are having trouble waking up. It is the same mindset of people who cannot accept the fact that your partner - who is such a nice person publicly - is abusing you. Even though you are standing in front of them with a broken arm. They wouldn't do that! Ergo it must have been something you did.
(And we are starting to see that play out in real time. It is the fault of the unvaccinated.)