Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
Men have a way of communicating with each other that we ladies don't quite understand. (Same applies with women) We ladies tend to use more emotion when we speak, and because we are emotional about it, even if we have facts and logic, it is disregarded. It helps my husband and I when I use the "I feel...whatever" if I'm really dealing with feelings. If I have what I believe are facts about a situation, I'll say, I believe... this happened, and here is my evidence."