You don’t need a therapist as much as someone to help you filter out the noise (emotional conflict) in your own head. Once you remove the ‘personal’ from personal problems they become simply problems.
Logic, reason and discernment.
For example,
Which would actually devastate your children, divorced parents or dead/debilitated parents?
Knowing this truth removes the leverage your wife had gained over you with your love for your children and the threat of divorce.
You don’t need a therapist as much as someone to help you filter out the noise (emotional conflict) in your own head. Once you remove the ‘personal’ from personal problems they become simply problems. Logic, reason and discernment.
For example,
Which would actually devastate your children, divorced parents or dead/debilitated parents?
Knowing this truth removes the leverage your wife had gained over you with your love for your children and the threat of divorce.
Move forward. Good luck.
Good insight and good advice.
Thank you.