Its a slow process and she is from a good family and was really apolitical. We have a deep connection and that over came a lot and I was willing to walk away. The red pilling really started when we watched the election fraud go down together which is painfully obvious to anyone with a brain. She had a hard time accepting that the media is lying as a former journalist. Just keep pointing out the lies. If she can’t eventually see it there is no saving the relationship though. The seeds of reason must be there. CALMLY show them the way but be willing to cut if they are too far gone. Once the damn breaks it breaks for good.
Arguing that they did the same thing to Bernie was VERY helpful..
Oh and do the therapy. We do therapy and our relationship is good. Im not sure I fully believe in it but it will make her trust you more for putting in the effort. Shit is expensive though.
Really appreciate your comments. She is actually a good decent person with a huge heart and comes from a place of love, but all these narratives have sunk their teeth in and played upon her goodness and emotions in a way that I have yet to be able to get thru.
Its a slow process and she is from a good family and was really apolitical. We have a deep connection and that over came a lot and I was willing to walk away. The red pilling really started when we watched the election fraud go down together which is painfully obvious to anyone with a brain. She had a hard time accepting that the media is lying as a former journalist. Just keep pointing out the lies. If she can’t eventually see it there is no saving the relationship though. The seeds of reason must be there. CALMLY show them the way but be willing to cut if they are too far gone. Once the damn breaks it breaks for good.
Arguing that they did the same thing to Bernie was VERY helpful..
Oh and do the therapy. We do therapy and our relationship is good. Im not sure I fully believe in it but it will make her trust you more for putting in the effort. Shit is expensive though.
Really appreciate your comments. She is actually a good decent person with a huge heart and comes from a place of love, but all these narratives have sunk their teeth in and played upon her goodness and emotions in a way that I have yet to be able to get thru.
Thanks would certainly be complicated with kids. Good luck sir.