It all started with a staged intervention last weekend at a cookout we were having at the house for family members. The wife, daughter and a group of in-laws cornered me and told me I was being selfish - I was jeopardizing their safety. The nagging and "attitude" had been going on for months prior. I once again explained my position but no amount of evidence or logic offered up was going to change any minds. My entire immediate and extended family has bought the narrative and drank the Kool-Aid utterly and completely. There's no convincing anyone otherwise. Today, the wife informs me that she wants me to move out of the house that I worked my ass off for decades to provide because I don't care enough about her to take the vax. It's a sad day but I'm not wavering. I'm packing my shit and seeking alternate living arrangements. I did inform every one of them not to call me when their health starts to go south in the near future....which was met with rolled eyes and an ambivalent shrug. They all think I've gone bananas.
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On one hand I agree with all the people telling you to make her move out (and I'm a woman).
On the other hand, when I left my marriage I was the top earner and made a much larger financial contribution to the property we had, but I just wanted out, so I left it all behind and he got most of what I'd bought and paid for. However, my freedom was much more important to me than the price I paid. I've been entirely happy with that decision, things worked out wonderfully for me, and now my life is the best it's ever been.
I wish you all the best sorting through and resolving your situation.