I need help my oldest has her baby shower in a few weeks and bio mom is making a stink about her safety. I looked and found a few studies to support safety of soon to be mom but I was reaching out if anyone has actual hard evidence or research to help support and calm her nerves that might be better then what I found. We have spent over a year fighting with the kids mom over corona. So much so that she didn’t want to even see them through it all so they stayed with us full time. It’s been a sore spot in the family because of her treatment. I don’t want to be mean about it but I’m over this bullshit it’s ridiculous. She isn’t completely brainwashed I’ve gotten through to her a few times through all this but because the kids are older we don’t communicate as much as we did. Any help would be appreciated.