I had a coworker that lived through the Bosnian stuff. Crazy stories these guys have. Really opened my eyes to how fast your world can change. One day he was attending college, enjoying his early years with friends & girlfriend. Then over the course of a week family and friends started taking "vacations" to neighboring countries for "a week, maybe two". Then his city was being shelled and he had to gtfo. Next he was a refugee peeling potatoes for a German restaurant and didn't speak a lick of German.