This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
If she did this behind your back she doesn't respect you. If you do manage to have kids with her, will she go against you and get them vaxxed behind your back? Sorry, this is a deal breaker. Without trust, you don't have much to build on. Two cannot walk together unless they are in agreement. Better to pack it in now then have to deal with a divorce later. Obviously other people's opinions and wishes are more important to her than yours. Besides, she will be transmitting whatever she was jabbed with so you don't want to be close with her. She not only risked her own health, but now has jeopardized yours as well.