This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
So in the future if there's something she feels "a lot of pressure" about, she should discuss that with others instead of her husband, eh?
Im here to say that a bunch of people leaping to conclusions when they know a fraction of the information could cause even more harm to him and to their relationship… have you ever considered what if he never did a good job explaining his viewpoint.. or there was some communication barrier we don’t know about that had influence.
Making a calculated decision requires all of the information… and the only one who has that is him. Don’t take life changing advice from people on the internet who don’t know your situation.
And yet, here you are, on the internet offering advice...not knowing any more than anyone else. May be time to heal thyself, physician.
That is what Sharker is saying. And once she consults with other people behind his back and she does something she knows he will hate, that it is his job to talk to her and understand why she betrays him. That is called "co-dependant".