Narcissistic victim blaming. It's your fault I hit you, and so it's also your fault that I got arrested for assault. You MADE me hit you and get arrested by being such a loner and minding your own business like a weirdo, you deserved to get hit. You are such an asshole for calling the cops after I hit you. Fuck you asshole. I'm gonna get all my friends to hit you now, because you're such an asshole for calling the cops after I hit you.
At no point EVER will thoughts of personal accountability or cause and effect enter their heads. They are functionally insane. Don't argue with them. Enforce consequences and hold your boundaries or else they will steal your ability to enjoy life.
Why does this sound so familiar?
Narcissistic victim blaming. It's your fault I hit you, and so it's also your fault that I got arrested for assault. You MADE me hit you and get arrested by being such a loner and minding your own business like a weirdo, you deserved to get hit. You are such an asshole for calling the cops after I hit you. Fuck you asshole. I'm gonna get all my friends to hit you now, because you're such an asshole for calling the cops after I hit you.
At no point EVER will thoughts of personal accountability or cause and effect enter their heads. They are functionally insane. Don't argue with them. Enforce consequences and hold your boundaries or else they will steal your ability to enjoy life.