My wife gets very angry very quickly if I put her in a position where her ideas are proven false, especially if there is evidence,
The best way is to plant seeds and facts and not challenge head on. If you induce the person you are debating to suddenly erect their emotional defences so that their ego doesn't get challenged, then that's painful and you've lost them for the day, or maybe permanently. Go very slow,
Remember, change is painful and isolating. They don't want to change.
Yes, inside they know, that's why you get the anger and depression and the projection.
My wife gets very angry very quickly if I put her in a position where her ideas are proven false, especially if there is evidence,
The best way is to plant seeds and facts and not challenge head on. If you induce the person you are debating to suddenly erect their emotional defences so that their ego doesn't get challenged, then that's painful and you've lost them for the day, or maybe permanently. Go very slow,
Remember, change is painful and isolating. They don't want to change.
Yes, inside they know, that's why you get the anger and depression and the projection.