What they deserve is your heartfelt prayer to Jesus asking for His help in forgiving them. Consider them forgiven, as it has been lifted up to Him. Wish them all the best in your prayers, never wish harm or bad luck. that does not mean that you forget - that you let them gaslight you about what they did - that you let them back into your life once the crisis is over, when they deserted you when you needed them most.
I've found no-contact with those who are just too evil to deal with to be the only option that leaves you sane. Yes, they have shown their true character. Pray for them doesn't mean you have to associate with them, allowing them to taint your home, your kids, your life.
I know I sound cruel, but life is good without evil people dragging you down - find people of like mind. Hate to say it but I've found so many Christians to be really lacking courage and faith during this whole disaster.
Maybe it's just me.....my two cents, though might only be worth a penny.
No...they deserve none of you.
What they deserve is your heartfelt prayer to Jesus asking for His help in forgiving them. Consider them forgiven, as it has been lifted up to Him. Wish them all the best in your prayers, never wish harm or bad luck. that does not mean that you forget - that you let them gaslight you about what they did - that you let them back into your life once the crisis is over, when they deserted you when you needed them most.
I've found no-contact with those who are just too evil to deal with to be the only option that leaves you sane. Yes, they have shown their true character. Pray for them doesn't mean you have to associate with them, allowing them to taint your home, your kids, your life.
I know I sound cruel, but life is good without evil people dragging you down - find people of like mind. Hate to say it but I've found so many Christians to be really lacking courage and faith during this whole disaster.
Maybe it's just me.....my two cents, though might only be worth a penny.