Resources? This is a bad obsession, when this man is not messaging her or coming to see her, she is neurotic and unhinged. She used to be vibrant, a little crazy like all of us, God fearing, and very content. Now she's crying or angry all the time. She herself admits this isn't marriage material or an actual relationship candidate and that it's a mental problem (she is 60, so she should know)
She is Christian and she is praying every single day, but prayer and meditation aren't fixing it. If she's not doing something productive she is listless and does not exhibit the fruits of the spirit. I feel so bad for her
Perhaps a devotional plan that is more structured than loose Prayer? An advice book? I'm looking for patriot approved ideas and solutions..especially since self help and philosophy stuff online is super liberal or not in line with the gospel
At the very least, I ask our prayer warriors to petition God can help her be free of this problem. Please pray for her, I can't give her name or identity to me, but I ask for prayers that will help her overcome this and find peace
She's not obsessed, she's trauma bonded. Only she would be able to break that cycle. It is hard and there's probably more going on under the surface, but still nothing anyone else can do. I've been through all of that...extremely toxic and eventually had a gun pressed to my head, after being strangled a few times. My kids woke up and saw the gun to my head and started crying, which I know saved my life. Keep her in your prayers, and I will say a special prayer for her as well.